Our relationship is predicated on One Holmes and One Watson. It’s a delicate homeostasis. And it doesn’t function properly if there are two Holmeses and no Watsons. So while I am sensitive that this is likely a ripple effect from the tragedy, turning yourself into me in response, is not good for our partnership.
I am not turning myself into you. I am finding my way through my situation. Whether or not that works for you is irrelevant. This is where I am right now, and this is how I need to be.